ok, now i have moved and as it turns out, it was my server provider.
When i went to cable, i bought their modem that covers all of their internet speed. From the lowest of low speed to the highest of high speed, it was covered on this modem. So i got their so called second to highest internet speed and i was in Bude heaven. no problems at all. Sometime this summer, they changed it. They came out with another modem that covers from medium speed to high speed. My modem all of a sudden was down graded to low speed-medium speed. Those idiots never informed me of the changes. Even when i called them that i might be having internet problems with the Bude, they told me there was no problems at their end and that it had to be coming from the Bude. They continue to charge me for high speed yet my own modem was downgraded to medium speed. It was only after i moved in that i called them to get this modem up and running again and that if i wanted high speed, i would have to get this new modem.
i totally flip on them for not informing me and for charging me three months of high speed internet that i was only getting medium speed. After their so called apologies to me, they credited my account for the three months and i use that credit toward their new modem and now i'm back in business.
I'm now on their new high speed modem and everything is up and running smoothly again on the Bude.
I guess it just go to shows that you better make sure you know what your paying for when it comes to this sort of thing.
I like to thank everyone who responded to this thread. Your help was much appreciated but as it turned out, it was those idiots at my server provider that was the problem.
Will see ya all out there on the track.
